Meningitis in your words: Chelsea's story

I am a mother of two girls and a boy. The youngest of my girls is now an angel.

In 2010, our lives changed within hours after the sudden death of my three-year-old daughter Chelsea from meningococcal meningitis. 

Chelsea started vomiting on Wednesday afternoon. I brought her home from day-care and gave her medicine for vomiting. By later that evening, it seemed that she had got better. But the vomiting started again in the early hours of Thursday morning and she also had a severe fever. We rushed her to the emergency room.

As we undressed her, we saw red marks on her body that hadn’t been there before. Right then, the doctor told us that these were all symptoms of meningitis. At 6pm that evening the doctor pronounced her brain-dead. On the morning of Friday 11 June, she passed away.

“I know that I am not the only parent unaware of the symptoms or signs of meningitis and therefore I’m determined to spread the message. I believe that we all can make a difference by joining hands in the fight against this disease that kills within hours.”

That was a special day for South Africa as it was the start of the 2010 FIFA Soccer World Cup. Everyone else was celebrating the day that we had all been waiting for. But we were the saddest family.

As I walked away from the hospital that morning I wanted to know: why? What is this disease? I discovered that there wasn’t a lot of information on meningitis available in South Africa. I started researching online as a coping mechanism and to understand what had happened to us. I founded the Meningitis Association of South Africa with the support of family and friends. Our organisation is the first and the only one of its kind in South Africa.

 

 

In collaboration

This article is published in collaboration with the Meningitis Research Foundation.

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Kate Rogers, July 2024

Meningitis in your words

Meningitis in your words is a digital library of stories, hosted by Meningitis Research Foundation, from people around the world who have experienced the life-changing impacts of meningitis. Their goal is to reach 2,030 stories in support of the World Health Organization’s goal to defeat meningitis by 2030, making this the world’s largest digital collection of first-person meningitis experiences.

Survivors, partners, parents, carers, friends, heath workers – everyone has a story to tell. Each one is unique, personal and has something to offer. Whether it’s compassion, encouragement, optimism or despair, sharing helps others who have experienced the impact of meningitis, letting them know that they are never alone.

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